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Growing Pains

Mary J. Blige - Growing Pains

12/18/2007 | Geffen Records 

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All Music Guide Review

Eight albums into her career and comfortably settled into married life -- and, for the most part, herself -- Mary J. Blige continues to prove her versatility and strength, building off 2005's The Breakthrough, but not copying from it. Her increased self-confidence, some of which comes from confessing her all-too-human flaws, makes Growing Pains a mature, polished, and utterly professional set of well-crafted songs. Blige, as always, is in great vocal form: her clear, distinctive voice carries the record with its dips and swoops and cries, but the embellishments never get in the way of melody, never replace the meaning of words with excessive vibrato or melisma. Musically, in fact, the album takes an even greater step toward pop (foreshadowed, no doubt, by the cover of U2's "One" on her previous release), with songs like "Fade Away," which borrows heavily from '80s pop, and "Talk to Me," which is informed by classic soul and uses an Emotions sample underneath the guitars and keyboards, helping to set the overall tone. Blige certainly hasn't lost her title of Queen of Hip-Hop Soul -- the opening, iTunes-sanctioned track, "Work That," is all swagger and affirmation with a great urban beat, the Neptunes-produced "Till the Morning" is funky and warm, and "Stay Down" takes a look back at mid-'90s R&B with rambling lyrical lines, including a fantastic reference to The Jeffersons, but she's opened herself up to more styles here, and successfully. She has been able to do what few others before her have: cater to her crossover audience without losing the essence of what she really is and where she came from, and so all of Growing Pains, from its upbeat beginning to its reflective, personal ending (though the last track, "Come to Me (Peace)" is the only real miss on the entire album), doesn't seem forced or calculated. These are strong songs, songs that keep hooks in mind, and while Blige's lyrics can occasionally border on cheesy -- like on "What Love Is," for example -- the very sincere passion she expresses, both in her voice and her words, is enough to erase, or at least fade, the platitudes, leaving only the emotion, the doubt and the love and the insecurity and the confidence and the talent, making for a very complete and satisfying listen. ~ Marisa Brown, All Music Guide

Growing Pains Track Listing

  • Track#
  • Title
  • time
  • lyrics
  • 1
  • Work That
  • 3:30
  • Sound Clip for Work That from Growing Pains


  • 2
  • Grown Woman
  • 4:05
  • Sound Clip for Grown Woman from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Grown Woman from Growing Pains

  • 3
  • Just Fine
  • 4:02
  • Sound Clip for Just Fine from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Just Fine from Growing Pains

  • 5
  • Stay Down
  • 4:22
  • Sound Clip for Stay Down from Growing Pains


  • 6
  • Hurt Again
  • 4:07
  • Sound Clip for Hurt Again from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Hurt Again from Growing Pains

  • 7
  • Shake Down
  • 3:36
  • Sound Clip for Shake Down from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Shake Down from Growing Pains

  • 9
  • Roses
  • 4:35
  • Sound Clip for Roses from Growing Pains


  • 10
  • Fade Away
  • 4:15
  • Sound Clip for Fade Away from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Fade Away from Growing Pains

  • 11
  • What Love Is
  • 4:03
  • Sound Clip for What Love Is from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for What Love Is from Growing Pains

  • 13
  • Talk to Me
  • 4:09
  • Sound Clip for Talk to Me from Growing Pains


  • 14
  • If You Love Me?
  • 3:39
  • Sound Clip for If You Love Me? from Growing Pains


  • 15
  • Smoke
  • 3:10
  • Sound Clip for Smoke from Growing Pains

  • Lyrics for Smoke from Growing Pains

  • Growing Pains Notes

    Nominee - 51st GRAMMY® Awards
    Best Contemporary R&B Album
    (For albums containing 51% or more playing time of VOCAL tracks.)
    Growing Pains
    Mary J. Blige

    Best Remixed Recording, Non-Classical
    (A Remixer's Award. (Artists names appear in parentheses for identification.) Singles or Tracks only.)
    "Just Fine" (Moto Blanco Remix)
    Moto Blanco, remixers (Mary J. Blige)

    Credits of Growing Pains

    • Pat Thrall
    • Overdub Engineer, Post Production Engineer
    • Jazze Pha
    • Keyboards, Drum Programming, Producer
    • Ron Fair
    • String Arrangements, String Conductor


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